Monday, September 23, 2019

PROCESSING FOR PEACE






Last Saturday, September 21, was International Peace Day.  Our church and art center celebrated in many ways: a street fest with bouncy castle, barbecue, live music and games and an outdoor projection on our 114 year old church building.  The projection included photographs our youth took this summer, along with incredible light art and haunting, beautiful music played by a neighbor.

The most meaningful part of the night for me was a lantern procession.  During the summer, we worked with Bart Buch, a neighbor and artist, to make lanterns.  We made lanterns with children and adults and at an Open Streets Festival.  They were illuminated with little electric candles that flicker, and we walked to different places in the neighborhood that have asked for peace.  This summer has been particularly hard on our community, with opioid use and human trafficking spiking.  At the same time, it has been hard especially for our immigrant families—menacing raids threatened, and the chorus of “Send Them Back.”

From the church, we stopped at Bart’s house, and then at the other side of his alley, where the neighbors organized this summer to help create a safe space.  Needles and other drug items were found in an empty lot, garbage was left all over.  The community put up a fence and reclaimed the space with their presence.

Then, we stopped across the street from the corner store which many people frequent day and night. Their sidewalk is a place where other folks congregate, mostly at night.  We decided to stop at the opposite corner, where there was more space to gather.  I realized that the owner of that corner is a friend from Iran, and there we stood in solidarity with our two peoples.

Then we went to a corner where a couple dozen children catch the school buses early in the morning.  6:30 to 7:00 am is a busy time at the corner, as people from outside the neighborhood buy drugs or sex on their way to work.  It’s actually busy all night long, as those who sell have made it their home away from home.  As we stood and sang our peace prayers, they were watching.  I did not feel afraid Saturday night, mostly because there were quite a few people processing for peace.  And because we had committed ourselves to practice peace whatever we encountered.

There is nothing like walking in the night in silence.  Or as much silence as you can get.  We had children with us on the walk (but to be honest, the adults talked more!).  A police car with its sirens blaring went by, as did a car proud of not having much of a muffler.  And there were the sounds of daily—or nightly—life in the community:  a TV set, people sitting around a table in the backyard, music playing softly.

This morning, I went to the bus stop again, to stand with the parents and children. We are trying to work with neighbors to create a safe space there, and there is a meeting tonight about that.  I have to admit that I was afraid when I got out of my car.  The people who sell were there, but there were no parents or children yet.  I reminded myself that I was still surrounded by the cloud of witnesses who walked Saturday night and many others, which helped.  It was cold this morning, and if I stand in place very long, my knees and back hurt.  So I did a little procession in place, walking back and forth on those sidewalk spaces.

I don’t know what will come out of the meeting tonight, or actions further down the line.  I talked with a parent at the bus stop this morning, and we both shared how we were thinking about winter, as harsh as it can be in Minnesota.  The sellers of the street aren’t that hardy, and there is respite for the community.

But I also think that as a community, we need to be our respite.  We need to walk, even process with each other in more profound ways, in order to build our community into a place where the kind of violence we face cannot easily take route.  That will take a lot of walking, a lot of processing, but we are not walking alone.

Be justice. Be beauty.  Be a procession of hope.

Patrick



Tuesday, September 3, 2019

BACK TO SCHOOL


BACK TO SCHOOL

I’m on Face Book too often, for sure.  But today it felt right.  It was the first day back at school, and so many of my friends are posting photographs of their children going off to school.  Often with photos of said children from years back.  Even my most political friends are doing that.  It’s a pleasant break from posts on the idiocies of our President and the tragedies of the world.

I must admit that I miss the first day back at school ritual.  Last year was the first fall in at least 25 years in which we didn’t have to arrange our morning schedules around getting one or both of our daughters off to day care or school.  But last fall, we were in the south of France on sabbatical when school started, so it didn’t hit me as much.  This year it has.

To be clear, I don’t miss the grind of getting an obstreperous, recalcitrant child off to school when they don’t want to!  But I do miss the communities that form at school, and I do miss checking my calendar to make sure I can get to Natasha’s volleyball game or Talia’s soccer game.  I miss running into parents that I saw weekly at games, at school meetings or just dropping off or picking up our daughters.

There are no grandchildren on the horizon, so I will have to be content with smiling at the parents with their children on my morning walks.  And with my memories of those mornings.

This is an old poem that was written about one of those morning a decade and a half ago:

GETTING UP

The person who had insomnia bad
Shuffles to the room of the person
Who got up four times to ask for water,
While the person who snores
Stumbles past the door of the person
Who can’t stop talking on the phone
All night long.

                   The person with dust mite
Allergies and the sore back lifts up
The person with pajama fuzzies
And fuzzy hair, and holds her upright,
A kind of morning prayer of the unresponsive flesh,
While the person with the surgery
Still holding her flesh with her tired hand
Wanders to the basement to pick out
Fresh clothes for the person
Who puts sand in each shoe each day, and to
Drop the same pair of jeans
Into the drying machine for the person
Who is terminally bored, and perpetually
Can’t stop talking to her friends
All day long,

                    while the person with eczema
Demands her TV show with aardvarks
From the person who is packing her lunch
And making her toast, and trying to listen
To the news from Iraq, while the person
Arising from the basement makes coffee
And gathers the book bag and the gloves and the boots
And rubs this morning’s skin cream
Into the person whose chief delight
In life is candy (and then gum and then candy
And then gum and then can I have some
Candy please), while the person
Who hides her candy and wants
A boyfriend is sleeping peacefully
In her bed with her cell phone, CD
Player, hoop earrings, two teddy bears
And a note from a friend who might
Have got pregnant,

                          while the person
Who immigrated 17 years ago,
Picks up the paper with the still strange
Language and reads, and the person
With the temper can’t find the car keys
And asks the person with her cup of coffee
To please put them in the place we always
Keep them, and yells at the person
With her pajamas still on to eat her breakfast,
And goes back to the kitchen to look
At the weather, and decides to eat
A banana with peanut butter, while
The person who has a test in algebra
Is dreaming of a day at the beach with friends.

                             Then,
The person with the sore back and
The person with the surgery take
The person with no clothes on still
And forcibly put on socks and shirt
And sweater and pants, and jacket
And boots and mittens, and “Yes, you
Can put your horsey in your book bag”
And “No you cannot take your tapping 
Shoes to school,” and “Please drink your juice” and
“Come on, let’s get to the car”, and the person
With tears but no remorse finds one more toy to touch,
One crayon or picture, or one thing
Of the person SHE KNOWS NOT TO TOUCH
BUT SHE DOES IT ANYWAY
BECAUSE YOU LET HER GET AWAY WITH IT,
And the three persons in one
Are out the door, to the garage,
To the car, to school, to work
To worries and to whomever it may concern,
While the person with the ponytail
And the braces and the bright eyes finally
Gets up and wonders why
It is always so quiet around here in the morning.

Apparently, this poem is so old, I can’t even format it correctly after copying it here!

Be a loving parent.  Be beauty.  Be justice.

Patrick